For some reason, it often happens that a man comes but a woman doesn’t. Moreover, women are more likely to orgasm on their own during erotic sex. If you want to avoid leaving you behind for a battery-powered penis, it’s time to think about how to prioritize women for erotic sex in bed so that we can be sexually satisfied every time.
The “orgasm gap” is a term that describes the mismatch between female and male pleasure, especially orgasm. 24% of men orgasms every time they have erotic sex, and 24% of women orgasm every time they have sex unfortunately, 83% of women who have had sex say they are “satisfied” with the amount.
Women who have sex (and you) don’t have to put up with this dismal figure. For us, ultimate pleasure comes from how we interact with each other in and out of bed, how independent we are, and even if another party is involved. While most women who have sex don’t orgasm through penetration, there are plenty of other ways to give your woman regular pleasure in bed. I wrote this guide to give you step-by-step instructions on how to keep your girl happy.
How to Pleasure a Woman in Bed Start outside the Bedroom
The foundation of making a woman orgasm starts with you and how you take care of yourself. This also applies to how you take care of her in and out of the bedroom. Before you even think about having sex with her, here are some things to consider. No one wants a dirty, lazy lover!
Hygiene: Scrub yourself!
Good hygiene is the bare minimum, but for us women who have sex, it means knowing how to take care of ourselves and not having to play mommy to you. (If your partner has to mother you, that’s very off-putting and an easy way to ruin the mood
Grooming yourself, rather than just showering, is a great way to improve your hygiene. Keep your nails clean and trimmed, especially if you want to touch us. Nobody wants dirty nails near their pussy! Incorporate a tongue scraper into your daily routine and take care of your oral hygiene. Keep your mouth fresh and you’ll want to put it on!
Plus, in addition to taking care of your body and health, you should extend this care and cleanliness to your home and car too. Not only is it a great sign that you take care of yourself; but when you’re in a space like this (especially naked), you want it to feel fresh, clean, and sexy. Taking care of yourself also makes you feel more confident.
Get to know our deepest fantasies
The easiest way to find out how someone likes to be fucked is to ask. Erotic sex, women, and loving communication about our likes and dislikes, our deepest desires, and darkest fantasies, and seek to know these things both within the context of your relationship and in your relationship with her as an individual independent of you.
Does she like toys? How does she like to use them? Does she like porn? What genres does she really like? Does she need you to lick her pussy until she cums? Does she want a threesome? Get to know her, find out what pleasure looks like for her, and give yourself direction on how to build more emotional intimacy and meet her needs in more pleasurable ways.
How to make erotic sex hot for women
A little verbal foreplay goes a long way, but the key here is to stop thinking about yourself for once. The two positive things to focus on are the things you want to do for her and complimenting her on her behavior and appearance. Try leaving out requests and wants from us for a while.
