This is probably the biggest question in the entire adult sex industry: is it moral to pay for sex? Anyone who works in the adult sex industry will tell you that it’s not, and as we’ve seen in many countries, there are movements to make purchasing adult sex illegal. However, if you talk to adult sex workers, you’ll see a different perspective. Here are five reasons why paying for sex is moral. Let’s go!
Sex workers want you to be there
The of sex workers are there voluntarily; they do this as a job. That’s why they want to be paid. They would do it even if you didn’t pay them to see you. So remember, they want you to be there.
Of course, there are cases where they work against their will. It’s not proof, but it’s something to look for. Not knowing the local language, appearing drunk or high, looking unhappy, etc., can all be signs. Paying for adult sex after noticing one or more of these things is immoral, but as mentioned above, these are exceptions to the rule.
You’re not a hopeless loserĀ
This is a belief of people who don’t like adult sex work, but it’s ultimately untrue. Millions of men take advantage of sex workers, and they come in all shapes, sizes, and social classes. This is more common than you think, so don’t worry if you’re the only one doing this.
It’s better than emotionally manipulating a sex worker
Sex workers know what they’re here for, and that’s sex. You don’t have to impress her. Just ask her out on a date. All you have to do is pay and be polite.
But if you want to meet women in the real world, you need to act like you’re interested in their stories and like you’re not just using them for sex. This can cause a lot of heartache. Sex workers don’t want emotional connections, so they don’t hurt anyone.
Sex workers don’t commit to each otherĀ
Continuing with the last point, you won’t be confused about boundaries, and no woman will think you’re dating when you’re not. Forget about “Pretty Woman”, it’s nonsense!