Adult Sex: In this fast-paced, very human, and unusually anonymous industry, adult sex is always a hot topic. In a client-companion relationship, both the client and the companion have the freedom to try out better versions of adult sex.
The adult sex partner can embrace his role and quickly become less shy and more open than his real-world alter ego. He is confident and sexy, irresistibly attractive, and amazingly sensitive. He is also a conversation partner that cannot be ignored. He can be anything he wants to be, even if he continues to try to incorporate his character’s strengths into his daily life. Clients who step out of their everyday social circle feel bolder than usual and more confident in themselves and their charms. With his buddy, he can replace Clark Kent with Superman and spend a few hours, days, or a week of fun. No need to be ashamed. Maybe he is usually shy? Just not with his buddy. With her, he is so bold, so lively, and full of passion for life. Maybe he needs to be more responsible and act normally. Sex for adults. She takes the initiative to give him an exciting, hot, enjoyable experience that he won’t soon forget, even if he doesn’t do anything.
This is adult sex. It’s great. It’s liberating. It’s healthy. Sex is for adults, especially for people who don’t have time or interest in traditional romance or traditional relationships.
It also creates an opening for the bad guys to come in. It makes a need for individuals to restrain their behavior, which is adult sex. And we’re dealing with adult sex. All the time. At its best, the industry’s unique features bring a dream-like quality to every interaction. An evening date with an escort is a decadent treat, a fun therapy session, a self-improvement session, and the ultimate role-play.
At its worst, this nature perverts the dreamland into adult sex. Without social influences to keep customers in check, destructive behaviors like not keeping appointments, the infamous “no-call no-show,” and generally treating very human companions as subhuman can surface.
Without a regulatory body to monitor the business practices of escorts, unprofessional conduct, poor quality of service, lack of punctuality, and even failure to keep scheduled appointments can damage the entire industry. Lawyers have their bar associations, doctors have adult sex forums, dealers have adult sex forums, etc., but we only have ourselves.
We have to do better. We owe it to ourselves and each other to always behave at the highest possible level of adult sex while in this industry, on both sides of the interaction.
We sometimes slack off in some parts of life. We shouldn’t, but we can because our superiors, society, and government agencies will correct our behavior. We don’t have that luxury in this industry because there are no solid regulations for sex with adults.
We have to have sex with adults—all the time.
Bad attitudes from companions lead to harmful attitudes from customers. One misstep can set off a spiral that ruins this beautiful, wonderful, fun thing for all of us.
If a companion disappears without a deposit, customers will be willing to pay future deposits, making it easier for honest companions to continue their business. If a client protests against sex, providers will feel less confident about future dates and will be distracted by worries instead of being fully present in the moment with their client.
Any misbehavior diminishes what is great about the industry. You can have the softest sweater, but if the seams pull you, don’t hold yourself to a high standard; it all gets out of hand.